it looks for a way of being constructive.
It is not possessive:
it is neither anxious to impress
nor does it cherish inflated ideas of its own importance.
Love has good manners
and does not pursue selfish advantage.
It is not touchy.
It does not keep account of evil
or gloat over wickedness of other people.
On the contrary, it is glad with all good men when truth
Love knows no limits to its endurance,
no end to its trust,
no fading of its hope;
it can outlast anything.
It is, in fact, the one thing that still stands when all else has
fallen . . .
In this life we have three great lasting qualities -
faith, hope and love.
But the greatest of them is love.
(I Cor. 13:4-8, 13, J.B. Phillips translation)